From my heart to yours

Published on 19 August 2025 at 20:14

Hi, and welcome to MumDoc — this is the story behind the site... 

 

I didn’t set out to create a website. I set out to survive.

 

For years, I’ve juggled being a doctor, raising two children on my own, and silently surviving the emotional wreckage of a narcissistic marriage. Some days, I barely made it through the shift. Other days, I barely made it through bedtime. And for a long time, I lived with the crushing pressure to keep it all together — professionally, emotionally, financially — even when everything inside me was falling apart.

 

But then something started to change.

 

Not suddenly. Slowly. Quietly. I started asking myself: What if I’m not the only one feeling this way?

What if the very story I’ve been hiding — the grief, the trauma, the single parenting failures, the fear — was the very thing someone else needed to hear to keep going?

 

That’s why I’ve created MumDoc.

 

This isn’t a place for perfect parents, filtered lives, or clinical detachment. This is a space for single mums, exhausted carers, burnt-out professionals — anyone who’s been through trauma and still shows up each day for their children, for their work, for themselves.

 

I’ll be sharing:

 

  • Real talk on co-parenting with a narcissist
  • Healing tools for mums who’ve lived through emotional abuse
  • Faith, motherhood, medicine, and mental health — without sugarcoating
  • Resources to help you rebuild routines, regain calm, and reclaim yourself

 

 

Why now?

Because I no longer want to live under someone else’s control — not financially, emotionally, or spiritually.

Because I believe there’s power in sharing what I’ve survived.

Because if even one woman reads this and feels less alone, it’s worth it.

 

If this resonates with you — please do subscribe. Download the free healing checklist. Share with a mum who needs it.

 

You are not alone here.

We survive — and then we build something better.

 

One day at a time.

MumDoc x